One of the hardest steps in picking up a girl is telling if she’s into you or not.
I’m going to let you in on a little secret. From the very second a girl lays eyes on you, she is sending out little hints that can tell you if she likes you or not.
Once you learn how to pick up on these little hints, you will be able to instantly tell if she likes you or not.
After reading this, you won’t get rejected anymore because you will already know that she is into you before you approach. Your confidence level is going to shoot through the roof. Like you have super powers.
Imagine how your life will change when you grasp all the missed opportunities that you didn’t even know where there.
Don’t hit on another girl until you finish reading this…
Women Don’t Show Attraction Like Men Do
The differences between men and women don’t stop at the vagina. Included in these differences is what women do to show attraction.
If you’re a man, it’s pretty simple for me to notice when a man is attracted to a girl. He will keep looking over at her. His voice and body language will shift. Ect.
Here’s what you don’t know:
Women are obvious.
This is what you have to look for. If you notice her pulling any of these, she likes you.
Hint 1: How does she look away from you.
This a kind of psychological one and is only applicable if you don’t know her. I don’t care how ugly or good looking you are. 90% of the time a you catch eye contact with a girl you don’t know, she will look away. Don’t just shrug it off though. Pay attention to what direction she looks away.
Did she look down? That tells you she views you as sexualy equal or superior.
Did she look left or right? That means she is still on the fence. Some further digging is required.
Did she look up? You’re busted bro. Not interested. Don’t get down though, she might just be taken.
IMPORTANT: According to psychological researcher Dr Timothy Perper, for any of this to work the girl has to look back at you within 45 seconds. Looking back is a subconscious part of female behavior.
Hint #2 – Did she check you out?
Believe it or not, women like to check out guys too.
I’ve even caught the elevator eyes. Usually they are more sneaky than that though.
Here’s the best way to catch her in the act:
Next time you think a girl is checking you out, start staring at something random and uninteresting. Like up at the ceiling. Then look back at the girl. If you catch her looking at the same boring and random thing, she was checking you out.
Hint 3 – She looks at you longer than usual.
This one is for after you have already met the girl. Do you ever give less eye contact to girls that you are not attracted so you don’t lead them on? Then when you are attracted to a girl you look into her eyes a little longer. Almost as if you study her.
Women the same thing.
Test it out:
After you’ve been chatting with a girl for awhile test this out. If you notice the conversation trail off, look into her eyes. If she looks back for at least three seconds, there’s a good chance she likes you.
Hint #4 Emotional Peaks
She might be hanging out with some friends or on the other side of the bar. You notice something weird though. Every time she laughs, she looks at you.
Why does she do this?
She uses that laughter as a tool to grab your attention while she is full of fun and good vibes. People having fun are desirable.
Hint 5: Physiology
When a girl is attracted to you, her physiology changes.
Certain ‘lust’ chemicals in her body increase. Causing her to physically change, for example:
- She arches her back to appear sexier
- She pushes her breasts out to show you her best features
- Her pupils dilate
- She begins to breath more slowly
- Her lips redden and become more pronounced
- Her nipples harden
- Her vagina becomes lubricated
Ok, so I get that some of these signals are hard to spot. But there are other signals as well.
For example, when people walk past someone they find attractive, often they automatically improve their posture.
Hint 6. She seeks attention
A girl walks briskly past your line of view, swinging her hips, and walking like she has a purpose, somewhere to go, somewhere to be. I didn’t even believe this sign existed at first. However, I had heard of it.
I first realized this sign was fact when it happened to me.
Of course, I noticed the girl briskly walking past me, but I didn’t think anything of it, until a girl I was with pointed out “that walk was all about you”. Basically, it was a form attention seeking.
There are other ways that girls seek your attention too. It may include talking louder than she has to with her friends in order to get your attention.
It could also be the following…
Hint 7. Proximity
Women are almost always aware of their proximity in a room.
Everyone has a ‘personal bubble’. The size of the bubble is different amongst cultures. In western society, it’s about 60cm in most situations, 30 cm in a crowded club.
Sometimes girls purposely invade a guy’s personal space. And often is to get attention.
An example is when a woman stands, or dances near a man in a club, by herself, and for no apparent reason. She doesn’t need to face him. But purely by being in proximity, it could be a sign that she wants his attention.
There are a lot of other methods girls use when it comes to invading a guy’s personal space. Some are more obvious than others. If it seems odd, as if there is no other good reason for it than to gather your attention, chances are she is in fact, seeking your attention.